Dating too many guys
I wasn't trying to hit some number in the Guinness Book of World Records.Rather, my goal was simple: to find a guy I could date more than three times, hoping this would lead to a relationship.Here are five great reasons to date multiple people -- at once: 1. So many people date "comfortably"; they keep seeing people who are nice, but they never date anyone who really excites them.
I loved this question because as a dating coach, you don’t see too many new challenges under the sun.
While this may be true of some women who are dating multiple people, I actually believe that there are many good (and, in fact, great) reasons to date several different people when you're single.
I even think that dating many people might be one of the best ways to find the one person you are really looking to find.
It’s easy to talk about the problem of not liking anyone, but it’s also a serious problem to like three guys at the same time. The second reason I wasn’t a fan of the four-date plan was this: she was operating out of fear.
Her greatest concern was that she was going to lose the opportunity to meet them, instead of worrying that she wasn’t giving each date the greatest chance to succeed.