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Well, they are right to be shocked, as I do indeed believe that modern technology has allowed us to speed up the process of meeting people, exposing us to people and communities we may not have found in the places we go (work, the gym, our friends' parties) in our own every day lives. Here's the real reason everyone is right about online dating: our brains are wired to see patterns that prove ourselves correct.It's evolutionary, something hard-wired in each of us.There are also, of course, the old-fashioned date complaints — that people turn out to be boring or arrogant or jaded. It felt good to bond over the trials and tribulations of what it was like to size someone up "IRL" (in real life) after the initial round of Google searches, mutual friend interrogations and innocent Facebook "stalking." For that reason, when my clients today want to list their complaints about this modern way of meeting potential mates, I nod my head and tell them they're absolutely right.Most of them look at me, shocked, as if they had expected me, a relationship coach living in 2015, to defend online dating as a practical and exciting way to meet someone.
“Funny, I didn’t think my age would be an issue.” Really? Don’t offer to help her fix her bike, when the story in her profile is about her success in fixing her bike. The questions you ask should be interesting to you, and personal enough to connect to her. Remember that you don’t know this person at all, and you shouldn’t have any expectations of when she should reply.
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If a person approaches online through a negative lens, believing everyone is out looking for noncommittal hookups, he/she will find evidence to support that, while his/her brain passes over evidence of the opposite. Up until the point you started thinking about buying that particular model, you most likely didn't notice it on the road very often.
But once your brain is made aware of its existence, and even attuned to notice details about it, you will start to see that car everywhere.